Comeback: from Being a Reject

Rejection is HARD so why do we seem to be so addicted to it?  You don’t know what I mean?  Of course you do!  We have all been in situations where we are trying to prove our worth to win the perceived prize.  For some of us this is our M.O. for relationships, trying to make ourselves be what we …

Comeback: to Being Seen

Do you feel seen?  It’s always the first question I ask any woman soliciting relationship advice.  Too often we find ourselves in relationships of convenience, ambiguity and stagnancy.  Only to realize the coupling we once happily participated in has left us unfulfilled and unseen. Like most things this is very much a two way street, so lets not go placing …

Comeback to Courtship: My Best Advice For Marriage Minded Women

I never envisioned myself being 35 and on my second marriage.  But here I am… And I wouldn’t have it any other way! I say that with the utmost respect for my amazing Ex and my spectacular Husband!  The truth is we ARE truly products and experts of our own experiences.  I can’t speak for anyone else, but MY experiences …

Comeback: from Office Romance Gone Bad

Hey, it worked for Barack and Michelle, but if you’ve seen the movie South Side with You it’s clear Michelle wasn’t having the office romance thing.  Sometimes fate intervenes and you live happily ever after, hell, maybe even become President and First Lady but lets just say the odds are pretty stacked against you. I have never had an “office romance” but …

Comeback: to Social Media After A Break-Up

There is nothing quite as depressing as ending a relationship…  Wait, I lied, getting the play-by-play of HOW the relationship ended on social media is just as depressing, especially when it’s still in the heat of the aftermath.  I will never understand why anyone would go on social media to debate or blast an ex.  YOU are the one who …